Friday, December 13, 2013

#12waysofchristmas -DAY 2

2. Tech the Halls.

Once again, balance is key here. Take pictures, note thoughts and experiences you want to share, call and text friends and family…but cut yourself COMPLETELY loose too. Did I dare say completely loose? Cuz that’s what I mean. When it comes to phones and technology during the holidays, on and off relationships are actually encouraged.

At least 3 times, shut off your phone and leave it behind. Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram will have no trouble waiting, and frankly the entire world doesn’t care that much about your status…

I’m still learning that my world isn’t as important as I think it is compared to the big picture. Rather than losing moments by over sharing them on social media, start USING MOMENTS to bring about joy!

Find satisfaction in simply experiencing. Don’t get me wrong, I will definitely be snapping photos, but let’s try our best to delay gratification of instant sharing. Hold off until the end of the night to get lost on Twitter, Facebook, and IG. Rather than scrolling through media during awkward moments, conversations, and dinner time, (hu)man the fuck up and deal with the now.

I know someone out there is thinking, “well what if I’m just bored with the moment….? Twit. FB and IG keep me entertained.”


Reality check! Turns out you’re most likely a human being just like me…and guess what…we’re interesting, weird, loving, loud, intelligent, and funny little entertaining things. If you struggle with boredom, try REALLY looking at your life for exactly what it is now. Then realize that you can do something right now to end boredom.

Watch the people around you, rather than the people online. Go for a walk, ask your parents a weird juicy question about the past, tell stories from your time away…. Mix yourself up and try something new and ridiculous and you will be surprised! The possibilities are too endless for boredom to be excuse…a weak excuse!

SO, give yourself and your phone some space…you both need it.


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